I’ve been hanging out with 4 to 5 year olds this last few weeks. I love it. I’m not sure if you all realise it, but kids are very cool. Adults are cool too… just some of them have forgotten how to be cool.
Children say what they mean. We some times don’t like it but we know exactly what they are saying… no bones about it.
If they say “I hate hate you”; when you giving them a consequence for saying “It’s not ok to stick your finger that far up Luke (a friend)’s nose”…. they’re saying that because they know, that you know, that they kinda know that it’s not exactly the right thing to do. Adults should (and I don’t use the word ’should’ that often) know how to be more diplomatic and still get the idea across.
Children are honest if we give them the chance to be. They are inquisitive if we encourage it. They will excel beyond our wildest dreams if we give them the time to be children; to explore the relationships around them and experience the natural world they have been born to. Many adults forget this. Ah too busy and caught up in the adult world.
Kids rock! I see them get so engrossed in new stuff that happens. Take a group of children watching a cater pillar turn into a chrysalis…I’ve observed it (many times) and trust me it looks like it’s lots of pain… but the children are in wonder, next thing they know they have a chrysalis not a caterpillar and we all go … wow!
I have to add here I just watched a grown woman with 6 children see this happen for her fist time and her reaction was wondrous (big smile)…. she took the time.
Adults are often cynical; pretentious; caught up in the identity of themselves; what they can do, where they’re going or what they stand for…( I can go on) …that they forget the ’stuff’.
We need to stop what were doing and spend time with our worlds babes. We need to learn from them, not mold them. Don’t get me wrong there are consequences for actions, but do we want clones? Do we want to reproduce replicas? Is our best intention to create someone who did or didn’t do what we did, wanted to do? To create someone that does what we were expected to do? Or can we offer a clean sheet of paper for them to doodle on?
Children vs adults? I like both, I just think we need to be firm with our children (to be corny… our future) but let them be kids.
On the flip side I think we as adults need to be honest and true to the kid in us (corny again) and remember how much fun and painful it can be… to be a child.
I think I like kids better, little or big. -x-
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